Transformed people transform people
Do you have similar thoughts and desires?
- It would be so good if…
- I crave for the moment when…
- All my problems would be solved if finally…
- Why is it so easy for them…
- If only my parents could have supported me, instead…
- Why doesn’t he appreciate me more?
- She must have been lucky…
What is similar in these longings and statements?
The desire for change.
And what determines whether someone remains in the role of a victim or actually willing to do the change? Let’s see by finishing the sentences in two ways:
Victim person:
It would be so good if… – But it is actually not too bad, so it is ok for now…
I crave for the moment when… – Yes, I am craving, I am just talking about it further…
All my problems would be solved if finally… – My boss, my husband, my friend would…
Why is it so easy for them… – I never understand how they do it and it makes me…
If only my parents could have supported me differently, instead… – I am stuck in my past and cannot move. Why did it have to happen like this?
Why doesn’t he appreciate me more? – I do everything for him and what do I get back?…
She must have been lucky… – She only cares about herself, of course she has time…
Self reflective – person:
It would be so good if… – Yes, I know it would be good for me, let’s see how it is possible to do a little change TODAY.
I crave for the moment when… – Hurray, I know my desire, just let’s see how I can feel the change already in the NOW as if it already happened.
All my problems would be solved if finally… – Aha, what do I know about what I REALLY want?
Why is it so easy for them… – How can it be easy FOR ME as well?
If only my parents could have supported me, instead… – Holy smokes, I was given the chance by them to find the solution that suits me best. IT’S IN ME.
Why doesn’t he appreciate me more? – Well, how could I see and appreciate MYSELF more?
She must have been lucky… – My luck resides within me; MY PATH IS MY LIFE.
My personal experience that set me on the path:
The milestone of my development came when there was no one left to blame, as more and more people turned ‘against me,’ in my thoughts yet my situation did not improve in the slightest. I had to admit that the external world is just a projection of my inner world.
BUT IF THE NEGATIVE MINDSET WORKS – AS I APPLIED IT EFFECTIVELY ON A DAILY BASIS – THAN THE OPPOSITE CAN WORK TOO.
Transformational coaching:
- is a way of working with you that moves beyond the surface of the topic
- fundamentally impacts all of who you are
- enables you to have a different relationship with yourself
- makes you conscious about how you see, think, feel and behave in situations
As above examples also indicate, the specific issue that bothers you may just be a symptom, and it occurs in various situations across other areas of your life with different frequencies.
Some questions to help you start on the path of becoming aware of your thoughts:
1. Have you ever thought about shaping your environment without trying to change anyone?
2. Would you like to explore the connections among your thoughts, emotions, and actions?
3. Do you want to break free from old behaviors and try yourself in a different role?
4. Are there situations where you feel frustrated, but you don’t know how to handle them?
The mindset is the driving force in the quest for success and achievement. A mindset that combines discipline, strength, confidence, and ambition is a powerful mindset. This can achieve anything it sets its sights on.
I can support you to make the change in your mindset. Start getting acquainted with my methods, and join me on the journey. I will instruct you in everything I know.
I’ll teach you how to elevate yourself and, consequently, your relationship towards yourself. This is the most important relationship that you will ever have in your life.
Autogenic training greatly supports:
- the process of transformation
- the achievement of the meditative alpha and theta state for stress reduction
- the identification of emerging subconscious programs
- the reprogramming of your thoughts and habits
I believe anyone can achieve this by dedicating time and discipline to themselves.
And if you’ve been on the path of self-discovery for a while, it’s time to stop wandering and proceed directly towards your desire!
The choice is yours!
Isn’t it the best time to take the first step?
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