What is the meaning of my life, and what am I supposed to achieve or experience?
Have you ever stopped to ask yourself, “Why am I here?” or “What is my purpose?” These are profound questions that have haunted humanity for centuries, and each person’s answer is unique. For some, the answer may come in a sudden epiphany, while for others, it is a journey of discovery that unfolds over time. In my own life, these questions have been the core of my spiritual awakening, and I’d like to share my journey with you.
The early years: Joy and acceptance as my purpose
As a child, I was often lost in wonder, observing the world with fresh eyes. I found joy in the simple things—smiling, laughing, and brightening the lives of those around me. Even then, there was a deep knowing that my purpose was to lift others up, to be a source of light in their lives. The energy I brought was infectious, and I found comfort in making people feel seen and valued. I wasn’t concerned with labels or judgment; all I wanted was to spread kindness and acceptance.
In my eyes, everyone was deserving of love, just as they were. The feeling of seeing others for who they truly were, without discrimination or expectation, became a guiding principle for me. Even at a young age, I understood that we are all connected, and I began to see my purpose as being a healer in my own small way—someone who could offer a smile, a kind word, or a sense of belonging to those around me.
Why am I here and what is my purpose? For personal awakening: and meeting My Twin Flame
As life unfolded, I faced my own challenges and struggles. Over time, I found myself confronting old wounds, limiting beliefs, and patterns that no longer served me. It was during this time of personal growth and transformation that I encountered my twin flame, a deeply spiritual connection that would shake me to my core and illuminate my path.
When I met my twin flame, everything changed. I experienced a profound sense of recognition and connection that was unlike anything I had ever felt. Suddenly, I understood that I was here not just to heal others but to heal myself as well. My wounds, old hurts, and limiting beliefs became the key to unlocking my true purpose.
My twin flame mirrored my own inner struggles, prompting me to confront and release the fears and doubts that had been holding me back. I realized that my purpose was not only about helping others but also about embracing my own healing journey. It was a call to step into my highest self and break free from the patterns that no longer aligned with my true essence.

Healing and growth: The path to transformation, towards my purpose
As I began to heal, I understood that our purpose is often intertwined with our deepest wounds. The things we need to heal within ourselves are often the same things that allow us to help others heal. The pain we endure becomes the wisdom we share, and through this process, we find meaning and fulfillment in our lives. Whether it’s a psychosomatic illness, the feeling of not being enough, or anything else I carry with me, everything happens for a reason. We must experience everything in order to be able to see and validate these in others.
Healing, however, is not always a linear path. There are ups and downs, moments of doubt, and times when it feels like we are moving backward. But it is in these moments of struggle that we grow the most. I have come to understand that healing is a lifelong journey, and every step—no matter how small—brings us closer to our true purpose.
Through my work as a transformational life coach and holistic therapist, I now have the privilege of guiding others on their own healing paths. I help them confront their fears, release limiting beliefs, and step into their true potential. In doing so, I am fulfilling my purpose—to be a healer, a mentor, and a source of support for those who seek to transform their lives.
The bigger picture of the “Why am I here?”: A collective purpose
As I continue to explore my own purpose, I have come to realize that it is not just an individual journey. Our personal growth and healing are part of a much larger, collective purpose. When we heal ourselves, we heal the world around us. Every act of kindness, every step towards healing, creates a ripple effect that spreads far beyond ourselves.
We are all interconnected, and when one person begins to heal, others feel the effects. My purpose, as I see it now, is not just to support others on their individual healing journeys, but to contribute to the collective awakening of humanity. As we heal individually, we contribute to the collective healing of the world, creating a more compassionate, loving, and understanding place for all.
Embracing the unknown: Trusting that the journey leads me to my purpose
The journey of discovering why we are here and what our purpose is can be a deeply spiritual and transformative experience. It is often filled with uncertainty, doubt, and moments of confusion. But it is also a journey of immense growth, self-discovery, and empowerment.
I have learned to trust the process, even when I don’t have all the answers. I have learned to embrace the unknown, knowing that the path will unfold as it is meant to. Each day, I take small steps towards healing and growth, trusting that my purpose is becoming clearer with every passing moment.
Ultimately, I believe that our purpose is not something that is fixed or predetermined. It is a living, breathing force that evolves as we do. It is something we discover not through intellect or logic, but through the heart. The more we heal, the more we align with our true essence, and the clearer our purpose becomes.
As I reflect on my own journey, I invite you to ask yourself, Why am I here? and What is my purpose?
Your answers may not come right away, and that is okay. Trust that the answers will reveal themselves in time. Know that your purpose is deeply connected to your own healing and growth. Embrace the process, and be gentle with yourself as you navigate the path ahead.
Remember, you are here to heal, to grow, and to support others on their journeys as well. Your light has the power to shine brightly, not only for yourself but for the entire world. You are a part of something much greater than yourself, and your purpose is unfolding beautifully, step by step.
You must follow your calling, otherwise you will always have a vibrational discord in your energy.
If you’re finding it hard to get answers for your questions by yourself, and want someone to hold your hand during the first steps, I’m here.